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So one of my buddies has been dating this girl for a couple months now. Everything was peachy I thought since he would only call me once in a blue to hang out, you know how relationships go.  Then I get an interesting phone call from him.
"She has a kid..."
Wow. Just wow. He was never told that she had a son from a past relationship. He was devastated. He really fell hard for the girl. He was quite upset to find this out, that his "dream girl" had a baby with someone else. It was like listening to an episode of Jerry Springer. I thought these things were impossible, but sadly was proved wrong.
Now I have no experience with baby mamas. I tend to stay clear from them all together. Even as friends. It puts me in an awkward spot and I don't want to bond with a single female friend's child as I don't want to mess up the child thinking I am the father or something. Shot, I'm having trouble with girls who are in relationships hitting on me! (More on my latest one tomorrow maybe?)
My friend's world was shook. Its funny cause he is like 2 years older than me yet I feel like I'm the older one with all the advice I through at him. lol. But I didn't know what to say. Its only been 6 months they have been dating. How can a girl hid that fact for whole months to a good guy like him. I told him to follow a consensus of his heart and mind. (I'm no longer a believer of just following one's heart alone anymore blame it on bad relationships. )
I also told him that the relationship wasn't built around trust. If she hid this, what is the truth behind her. What else has she lied or hid from him. He countered with, "But I love her"
Those are the words that spurred the reveal. When he told her that he loved her she broke down and told him about her son. He baby's daddy is in jail serving for assault of guess who. The baby mama. I told you, its just like Jerry Springer.
With craziness like this, its just best to cut ties and leave. There are better fish in the sea. This one got serious problems. Take it from a guy like me who has a hero complex. I tried to rescue many girls but only ended up hurting myself. And he finally agreed that I was right and he was trying to save her too.
I'm not saying people don't deserve a second chance, but I don't think its cool she lied to him right off the bat. If its meant to be it'll find a way to work itself out and not forced fixed. The twisted part of me is thankful that crazy drama happens to other people besides me. lol.
asd
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